Do you want a man or do you need one?

I know many women who complain that they simply can not face another holiday being alone. There are many women like them, of all ages, from 20 years to 60 years. But you see, they don't want a man, they need one; because they need someone who can fill the gap in their lives.

It's a big difference between wanting a man and needing a man.
Why do I say that? The difference is about the type of man you will attract - one who will love you and will make from your happiness a priority, or a man who will put first his own needs and desires. (And who will let you wait).

Men are attracted by women who are not indifferent to the opposite , who want a man, without really needing one, and who act according to this.

They also detect (like a camera!) the type of women who need a man, who are frightened by the thought of being alone, who are desperate to have a man in their lives.




What kind of signals do you transmit to men?
If you find yourself in the category of those who need a man, admit it. You don't have to be shame about. Eventually, acceptance is the first step toward change. And starting with this moment, try to develop that self esteem happiness and trust which will attract the men you deserve. Happy women, who love and respect themselves, attract that type of men who will love them, in turn, and who will do all to satisfy them.




How to become one of these women?
For the start, treat yourself like a treasure waiting to be discovered. Talk to yourself as you would talk to the person you love the most. If you feel like saying: 'this always happens only to me', 'I'm so stupid' or 'the destiny wants me to be alone', than stop right now.

Change your words in 'I love myself and I accept my self unconditionally.', 'I'm the best', 'I attract good men, good friends and favorable situations'.

Think, for example, about how would you treat the one you love the most and treat yourself in the same way.

Above all, remember that there will be moments when you will be unsure of yourself, when you won't have all the answers, when you will step into a room full of people and you'll feel afraid. But it's ok, it is very normal.


Love yourself more than anything else
Soon, you'll see how good things and good people will be attracted as a magnet to you.