More tips from ABAL, oh my! :) I hope it's ok with you if we talk about intimacy openly from time to time...after all, this is A Blog About Love :) And we think it's important to talk about it as it is one of the most important & beautiful parts of a marriage.
I hope this doesn't sound too Cosmo. Eeks! That is not my intention. Just want to share a tip that I think is really great & that I think might be helpful for a lot of people out there....
Have a date in bed - - in other words, set aside some time to be together (no clothes allowed :) and here's the key...do not make the agenda. Yep, no :) You know how much I believe is so important in a marriage, but to vary the emotional intimacy & connection from time to time, I think it's so nice to be together in such an intimate way without the expectation that this moment is leading to . It allows you to have some set aside time for intimate, loving & kind conversation with your spouse...the kind that maybe doesn't happen in such a powerful way so often due to time/schedule/work/kids/etc. (And I'm guessing that long, natural conversation & completed sentences aren't exactly happening during , either, right? ha!) So....
-Ask your spouse to just cuddle.
-Lay very close to each other.
-Caress, etc., etc.
-Speak as kindly as possible to one another.
-Tell each other all the things you appreciate about each other.
-Tell each other thank you for all that they are doing for your family.
-Ask if there's anything you can do for the other person.
-No rush. Just many moments of togetherness and closeness & tender conversation.
-Fall asleep together.......OR........yes, finish with . Whatever strikes your fancy. Either way, you'll feel very connected to your spouse.
Nice, right?
And, put those candles to work. They really do something magic.
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